Category: Fr Jeffs Blog

  • Balamma Satram (Holy Family Home for the Needy), Amagampalli Village, South India.

    Balamma Satram (Holy Family Home for the Needy), Amagampalli Village, South India.

    We left the UK on the morning of Tuesday 7th hoping for the flights to be on time from Birmingham to Dubai and then Dubai to Hyderabad. However, both flights were heavily delayed which made the journey very tiring. On a positive note, this gave me an opportunity to get to know Fr David Gnosill from Coventry, who was travelling with Mary Skaag and I for the first time. We arrived in India on Wednesday morning and travelled South by road, stopping at the Salesian College in Kurnool for lunch and an overnight stay. Even though the college is half way between Hyderabad and Balamma, the work that Fr Sarves is doing is well known and widely respected. We also visited the Mother House of the Carmelite Sisters who help Fr Sarves. Once again, the positive comments about our worked filled us with pride. Here we had Holy Mass and prayed for everyone back at home and also for one of their young Sisters who had just died of cancer.

    From Kurnool to Balamma Satram was a full days journey by car and when we arrived it was almost dark. There was a great welcome from the people and as normal there was no electricity. Fr Sarves had particularly wanted Fr David to experience first-hand what it was like without any power. However, just after our arrival the solar panels and the generator were switched on and the village was transformed. We still only have a bucket to wash in but at least there is hot water in all of our rooms. The money for the solar panels and the generator were paid for by contributions from the UK in 2013.

    Over the next few days we have been able to show Fr David the poverty that Mary and I have come to share. We visited villages without water, only having one single water pump for over three hundred people. Travelling by car you notice that there are no ‘shops’ as such just simple stalls usually about ten miles apart. These rural village stalls sell mainly locally grown crops. Fruits like bananas and coconuts have a freshness and taste you don’t find at home.

    Due to all the transport and teacher strikes during the months of October to December in the State, the children in our care were not allowed normal holidays during our stay. We had to visit them in their schools and also at Fr Sarves’ relative’s, where some of them had spent a few days to celebrate the harvest feast called Pungal. All of the children are doing very well at school and they have all grown since my last visit.

    The village itself is still in excellent condition. Fr Sarves strives to keep the maintenance ongoing so as to ensure that none of the money that we have given is misused. There is a deep serenity about the place and this is seen by the attitude of all the people working together. It is a safe haven for all the elderly and sick who are here on a permanent basis, but also there is an ‘open door’ approach each day for any new arrivals. On Saturday, one lady was just dumped outside the gate, she had nothing, not even clothing to cover her. Within twenty-four hours she was a different person. She received a bed, food and all the medical help she needed.

    One of our main outreach programmes that we are involved with is the care of vulnerable young girls aged between 16-20. This year we have taken in 20 girls and given them shelter, food, clothing and medical aid. The Carmelite Sisters working with Fr Sarves offer them skills in housekeeping and sewing which is something they have never had. Father and the Sisters are making the best use of the limited resources they have to help the young girls, but better accommodation and toilet facilities are needed. These girls are full of joy and appreciation towards us for taking them off the streets and giving them renewed hope for the future.

    Coming to India makes me aware of the vast and varied blessings that we all receive from God through one another. What little we can offer another goes a long way in helping the real needy in our world of today. When we visited Fr Sarves’ Bishop, he was full of encouragement and thanked us for all we do. He highlighted just how much he held Fr Sarves as a living example of how we should all live. I take inspiration from St Augustine when he said, “What I am is God’s gift to me, what I become is my gift to God.”

    Over the next few days Mary, Fr David and I prepare to leave the village that does such important work with the young, sick and the elderly. Your prayers and support back at home in the UK make all this work possible. It is a living example of Jesus’ call to love one another.

    See you all soon with lots more to tell you! God bless. Fr Jeff

  • Fr. Jeff’s India Blog – Week 3

    Fr. Jeff’s India Blog – Week 3

    Balamma Satram Home for the Needy, South India
    7th September – 10th October, 2012

    Trying to cope with extreme heat is difficult for a healthy person to survive in this area of South India, but for someone who is only hours from death it is an
    enormous struggle. On Friday night, Nirmalah, the sick old man that I spoke about last week was very close to death. He could hardly breathe. As I prayed
    over this man, Mary tried to help him by cooling his body and also giving moisture to his lips as they were sticking together. In his last minutes he died very peacefully. Within thirty minutes Mary and I, along with two of the men carried his body to rest in the chapel overnight. So much care was given to him as we placed him directly in front of the tabernacle and lit candles of jasmine and sandalwood. The smell was heavenly.
    The following morning after breakfast Mary collected all she needed to wash the body and to prepare Nirmalah for his funeral Mass. This is the first time that I had helped to prepare a dead body. Mary took this in her stride as she had done this before on previous visits. As she said, “It is a privilege to do this and to realise that the soul of Nirmalah had now journeyed to meet God face to face!” Everyone in the village attended the funeral and afterwards Mary and I helped to carry the body to the grave that is on our land. There he was laid to rest with great dignity in the hard parched ground.

    In the afternoon one of the eldest sponsored girls came back to see us. She told us that she had received her Diploma in Nursing and was working in a neighbouring village Primary Health Centre five days a week. This news really gave us a boost to know that our sponsorship programme is bearing fruit in helping others.

    Sunday morning was spent very quietly and then we had a concelebrated Mass with the congregation once again being made up of Catholics, Christians, Hindus and Muslims. After lunch, I spent a great deal of time with a co-sponsored child called Sreekanth. We finalised his placement on the Bachelor of Pharmacy degree course at the Tirupati University. In September 2005, I met this young shepherd boy who was without any education and now in 2012, he has achieved high grades in his ‘A’ Levels. These results give us all a great buzz of satisfaction knowing that our efforts are not in vain.

    On Monday we travelled by train to Chennai on the final part of our journey in
    India. Even as we left the village we were not sure that the trains would be running. Early in my journals I have spoken about the lack of constant electricity in the rural villages. This had impacted on the reliability of the trains as necessary repair work had been delayed. For ten days there were no trains running through Kadapa, however, when we needed the train God was by our side as our train was the first train to run and was only one hour late. Even on the train we felt God’s presence helping us in a difficult situation. Originally the only seating births we could get were on the top tier. However, the couple below us got out at the next station, which is very unusual for the train to stop at a local junction. We were then able to have their places for the seven-hour journey. In Chennai I took the chance to have a proper shower before travelling to the airport – England here we come!

    If I could sum up this fifth visit to India I can honestly say that the rural people are suffering more than ever. Even the richer people are not able to freely grow their crops due to the lack of rainwater. The area surrounding the Home for the Needy has been without rains for two years now and there is no real chance of rain before April or May 2013. The whole diocese of Kadapa is suffering also through the lack of foreign aid due to the world recession. The Bishop is therefore unable to sanction many necessary pastoral programmes. This is why Fr Sarves, through our giving, has taken on projects like the young
    women’s empowerment programme, which is delivered by the village Sisters. The elderly in our care are well looked after as they receive shelter, food and are kept in a clean safe environment. The children continue to grow in confidence. They are working hard at school to equip themselves with the necessary skills that will help them to become self-sufficient in the future.

    This Indian project has helped me to realise that we all have a responsibility to
    share what we have to help care for the most vulnerable and needy in our world today. We do this in many ways but especially through our constant prayers for others and our financial assistance. For Jesus said, “When I was in need you came to my help.”

    I take inspiration from the life and words expressed by Blessed
    Mother Teresa of Calcutta (1910-1997).

    ‘Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only
    today. Let us begin.’

    ‘It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.’

    ‘A life not lived for others is not a life.’

    For further details about this project in South India and ways you might like to
    help, please contact:-

    Fr Jeff. Email: stmarysphilip@aol.com or

    Mrs Mary Skaag. Tel. (02476) 336345 Email: maryskaag19@hotmail.co.uk
    Address: 6, Fivefield Road, Coventry. CV7 8JE.

  • Fr. Jeff’s India Journal – Week 2

    Fr. Jeff’s India Journal – Week 2

    Balamma Satram Home for the Needy, South India
    29th September – 7thOctober, 2012
    As Mary Skaag and I have travelled around the surrounding area within a fifty mile radius of the village, we have realised that the poverty of the area is becoming greater due to the lack of rain. This is my fifth visit here and I have not experienced anything like this before. Everything is so extreme, there are fewer crops growing in the fields due to the lack of water and the bone dry soil is compact and hard. With these conditions in mind, every Holy Mass I celebrate I always include a prayer for rain and a more positive outlook for these people.
    Saturday 29th September. Today some of the sponsored children were brought home to the village to meet us. These are our youngest children who came to write letters for their sponsors back in the North East of England and in the Coventry area. They were delighted to be with us and expressed their gratitude to us through their enthusiastic smiles and hugs. After this we went to Kadapa to visit St Joseph’s Girl’s College where three of our girls are studying. We had to wait until the classes were over and then we were over-run by four hundred girls running to meet us. Our girls took us to the laboratory where they were dissecting snakes and then the teacher gave me a quick lesson on the lifecycle of the mosquito which causes malaria. We then visited the Bishop of the diocese. He made us feel very welcome and spoke openly about the great difficulties in the diocese due to the on-going poverty of the people and their fight against the political system that makes no proper provision for electricity in the rural areas. The Bishop spoke very highly of Fr Sarves complementing him on his great mission and zeal in his work with the poor. He also spoke about his own involvement with the new Telegu translation of the Altar Missal and also his programmes that he has suggested for his priests and people in the coming ‘Year of Faith.’ Catholicism in the diocese is very devotional and reminded me what it must have been like in England some forty to fifty years ago when we had many processions, novenas and parish retreats.
    Sunday 30th. This morning was spent quietly supporting an old man in the village who was so ill we thought he was dying. He was moved into a more open area so that he would have a little more fresh air. At midday we had Sunday Mass which was followed by the usual lunch of rice and curry. After a short rest we then went to one of the other schools to visit more of our children. This particular school is run by an order of Sisters who also have a small field hospital on the campus. Here we met an Indian doctor who had studied in America and who was now doing a one year placement in rural India. On each of her visits to India, Mary has suffered from a foot infection due to mosquito bites which has proved difficult to treat. This particular doctor was asked by Rev Mother to look at Mary’s foot and instantly he prescribed intravenous medication through a cannula in her hand. This treatment is very painful but over the next three days her foot became better and was healed.
    Monday 1st October. Today we celebrated the feast of St Theresa of the Child Jesus. Before the Mass, Fr Sarves explained the life of St Theresa and her concern for the poor. The Mass is always a joint celebration in both English and Telegu. Although the people do not speak English they still enjoy and participate fully whether it is Fr Sarves speaking or myself. It really is a celebration of the Body of Christ – Fr Sarves an Indian priest, me an English white priest and a joint congregation of Catholics, Hindus and Muslins. After Mass we were off again to visit more schools where our children are placed. In the town of Badvel where the school is situated, we called on the parish priest who had recently returned from studies at the Gregorium College in Rome. He had gained a Licence in Mass Communications (radio and television). Mary picked up on this and asked him if he would help to produce a documentary about the project work we are doing in one of the poorest parts of India. On our return to the village we though it might rain heavy but only a few drops eventually fell. This then gave rise to a hot wind with a great humidity. This type of weather quickly saps the energy out of everyone especially the elderly and the sick.
    Tuesday 2nd.  Once again we had morning Mass at 7.30am and then travelled to Kadapa where Mary had to fill out her Indian visa registration papers with the Superintendent of Police. I was surprised by the inefficiency of the police procedures. However, we were treated well. In India, Christianity is a minority religion and therefore treated somewhat with suspicion by the Police and so we have always to be careful that we do not give the impression of actively promoting the Catholic Faith. This visit to the Police Station took most of the day and after a meal at Bishop’s House we travelled back to the village. As usual I went to bed under my mosquito net, thinking and praying for all the people back at home who help to make the work of this home for the needy possible.
    Wednesday 3rd.  At morning Mass Fr Sarves prayed particularly for rain and for the survival of the area without water. After breakfast, Sr Justina came to give Mary her intravenous medication. These nursing Sisters are very much part of our work at the village and minister to the sick every day. All medical care is done out in the open with a big effort being made to try and make sure the treatment area is mosquito free! The old man whom I spoke about is still alive although becoming weaker, but he is given the dignity of preparing for death by the Sisters and the village helpers. Lunch was served at the local Convent and then we met the young girls who are on the Healthcare Course which our charity supports through financial aid. This course is designed to help the young girls prepare themselves to look after a family and home in the future. They also learn tailoring skills which will hopefully help them to make a living.
    Thursday 4th. Today we returned to the town of Kadapa to collect Mary’s registration documents from the Police Station. After this we then called into the Don Bosco Technical College for needy boys. This Salesian College promotes vocational training for the boys in many aspects of joinery, welding and basic engineering. At the college, Fr Sarves received an update on an order placed for stainless steel beds to be used for our most incontinent patients.
    Over the next few days we will be continuing to care for the elderly people here, complete our school visits and also spend time in prayer asking God to guide us and to place the whole project in His hands. I often recite the prayer of ‘St Michael the Archangel’ each day for our protection and to guide us all to be more open to God’s loving providential care – may the Lord be our help and strength.
  • Fr. Jeff’s India Journal 2012 – Week 1

    Fr. Jeff’s India Journal 2012 – Week 1

    Balamma Satram Home for the Needy, South India
    24th September – 1st October, 2012

    This is my fifth visit to India and the excitement of what lies before me is ever present on my mind. The two day journey with Mary Skaag gives me me relief as to travel on my own would be very tedious. Our visit gives great support to Fr Sarves who has been quite ill recently due to the stress of the present situation in South India. The lack of electricity and water has made daily life very difficult in the rural parts of the country.
    Mary and I travelled from Newcastle via Heathrow to Hyderabad a journey of 12 hours. As a Registered Charity we were allowed to take six suitcases – 69Kg plus hand luggage. These cases were full of medical supplies and educational equipment for the village. In Hyderabad, we had two cars waiting for us to take us on our journey to the village which was another twelve hours away by road. We had a lunch break at the Salesian College, this is a charity home for street boys who have no one to care for them. In return for our meal we were able to help the Salesian Fathers financially to look after the boys.
    On arriving at the village the first thing that struck me was the immense heat, it was like a sauna. Even though it was dark I could see that the ground was parched and we were told that there had been no electricity that day. A very simple meal was prepared for Supper of rice and dahl which is the local food of the people. After supper we went to bed and we had to endure the heat of the night which was 35C. Sound sleep was almost impossible as I kept waking up due to the high temperature.

    Wednesday 26th I woke up at 5.00am with the cockerel crowing! No showers or bath just a bucket of water and a jug – but, I am used to this now. For us bottled water is essential as we are unable to use the local water (when they have it) due to many diseases being carried in it. After breakfast all activities are done outside as it is so hot. We only go back into our rooms in the evening. The morning was restful with Holy Mass later being at the heart of our day. This was a celebration shared with Catholic’s, Christian’s, Hindu’s and Muslim’s. During the day we met the elderly and some of the young people who were trying to greet and speak to us in their own mother-tongue of Telegu. A local family came to visit the village. Their brother had been killed in a road accident five years ago and as this was his anniversary they sponsored a meal for the whole village in his memory. This was also done out of appreciation for the work we had done for the poor. Our lunch was a simple meal of rice and dahl with an Indian omelette. This is the typical food we have at every meal each day. The rest of the day was used to discuss the project with Fr Sarves as he gave a report on the elderly and the children being cared for.

    Thursday 27th Today we celebrated Fr Sarves’ birthday. There was a concelebrated Holy Mass with six priests and we were joined by the Sisters who help in the village. The girls who have been given help through our financial aid were also present. Today is the feast of St Vincent de Paul, the saint of the poor. Not only were we celebrating Fr Sarves’ birthday but we were also highlighting and giving thanks to God for all of our work with the poor.

    During this coming week we are preparing to visit all the sponsored children in their schools. However, we are ready for the unexpected which has always happened on every visit.
    As in all my visits, I feel that we meet Jesus face to face every minute of each day. We see his need in the sick, the disabled and the abandoned. I feel privileged that God has given me the grace to respond to his call. I also thank God that parishioners in our diocese have supported this project which is transforming, saving and enriching so many people’s lives. God’s Kingdom is being lovingly established as we serve one another.
    As St Augustine said – [su_quote]To create a community of love with God at the centre that reaches out into the world.[/su_quote]

    (Check out the ‘Overseas Projects‘ page for further details about the project & some photos)